My last blog seems to have been posted in March 2008. Phew!! 3 years have passed by and in this gap i have finished one year of work and 2 years of my master's education. Time really flies!!
Well....I really don't have a topic to blog on, but I have just decided to kick-start the process again. I am doing this especially because, a special friend of mine sweetly insisted that i should start horning my blogging skills again.:)
So the theme of this blog is gonna be "What happened to me in these 3 years?":P
Everything still remains the same except for the fact that i have grown manifold to look at life and people from several perspectives. Now, the "several perspectives" include being critical and at times cynical!! Oops..now this sounds a little philosophical. Alright, that is not the intention here...
From April 2008 till now, I have had very special as well as depressing moments. I have met extremely nice and unbelievably irritating people. But what I have come to understand offlate has made an enormous difference in my pattern of thinking.
I have learnt that there is always something good in every bad person and something bad in every good person. This makes us all either uniformly bad or uniformly good!:) Hmmm..now this could sound a lot comforting to most of us..atleast, it does, to me!!:) The very same principle can be applied to incidents as well.
The weird part about the statement above is that, there is subjectivity involved in every word that I have used!!:) So what does it ultimately imply?....Is it really right or necessary to judge or analyse every person or incident that we come across? Does doing so nurtures development or creates confusion?
Over these years, I have found myself self-centred and selfish, though nice, caring and sweet at times. Now, which side of the coin do i really fall into? Good, bad or ugly??!! I guess i have played all the three roles with utmost involvement!! Sometimes, it has been for my own good. Sometimes, for the good of others!!
Whenever these confused thoughts had plunge into my little head, I have told myself not to think too much, continuing to think about them. I guess that was the mistake I did. I had always given importance to what people would think about me than what i thought about myself. I have tired to convince others before convincing myself.
However, over the last three years, my mantra to avoid these confusions has been rather simple. "Take charge of your life and face the consequences - Be it good, bad or Ugly!". This way, I am not answerable to anyone except my consciousness. Well, its a lot easier to reason out things to one person than to many!!:)
Rather clichéd..but still very apt "life is like an ice cream! Enjoy it before it melts!!":):)
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